
Mom Voice

Why Is It So Damn Hard to Be a Mom and a Therapist?
We all have stories of how parenthood was hyped up throughout our childhood and then when the day arrived…it may have been deeply disappointing. Or harder than they said it would be. Or you realized it’s a thankless job.

Why Do I Play Small When I Want To Play Big?
I’m always the smallest person in the room. I will minimize my accomplishments all day long. I look at other therapists like they’re celebs that I’m not allowed to rub elbows with, only admire from afar. I never feel like I’m on the same or equal playing field.

Burn It Down to Build It Up: Ditching the ‘Perfect Mom’ Myth for Good
Newsflash: The “perfect mom” doesn’t exist.
Yet, somehow, we keep chasing this fictitious woman. She’s the mom with the spotless house, the homemade organic lunches, the perfectly balanced work-life schedule, and the patience of a saint. She never forgets a permission slip, she never raises her voice, and her kids always eat their vegetables without a fight.

Letting Go of the “Shoulds”: The Permission Moms Give Themselves to Say No
As moms, we carry the weight of an endless to-do list. From the laundry pile that never seems to shrink to the emails flagged for "later" that haunt us, there’s a nagging pressure to keep pushing through, to handle it all, and to do it perfectly. But what happens when our energy runs dry? When the mental and emotional load gets to be too much, yet our inner dialogue whispers, "You should just power through"?

"I Don't Always Like Being A Mom" (and that's okay!)
Catch my podcast appearance on Mind You with Deja Kelly, graduate student. We talk all things mental health, moms and therapy.

The Power of Mutual Friendship Among Therapist Moms
In my own journey, I've found that the connections I've made with other Therapist Moms have been invaluable. There’s an instant acceptance, recognition and understanding that cannot be put into words.

Why "Self-Care, Mama!" is the New Queen of Cringe
So sure, moms need a break. But it’s not a nail appointment or a spa day, it’s a break from the pressure to do all and be all in spite of ourselves.
Guest Blog by Stacy McCann, LCSW, LBA

Part 3: The Keys to Taking PTO as a Therapist and Mom
We’ve arrived at Part 3 where I spill the beans on my super duper top secret way that I ensure my PTO is not only taken, but done the way it’s intended.

Part 2: Why It’s Vital to Take PTO as a Therapist and Mom
When was the last time you actually took SCHEDULED time off work?
Don’t worry, I’ll wait.

Part 1: Why It’s Vital to Take PTO as a Therapist and Mom
Whatever you want to call it, however you want to abbreviate it, taking days off of work is a multi-faceted topic in the world of working moms.